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Breaking Free: Six Habits to Ditch for Healthier, Happier Relationships
Transform your connections and attract the right people by eliminating these six toxic habits.
Do you often find yourself entangled in relationships that leave you feeling drained and unfulfilled? If you believe you are a magnet for toxic individuals, you’re not alone. Many people unknowingly cultivate habits that attract the wrong kind of people into their lives. According to relationship expert Tina Fey, the founder of the blog Love Connexion, breaking free from these habits can pave the way to more fulfilling and genuine connections.
In a recent feature on Hack Spirit, Fey highlights six detrimental habits that repel healthy relationships. By consciously altering these behaviors, you can open yourself up to positive, nurturing relationships. Here’s a deep dive into these habits and how to overcome them:
1. The Perils of People-Pleasing
One of the most common yet damaging habits is the incessant need to please others. When you prioritize others’ approval over your own needs, you invite toxic individuals who thrive on your willingness to put their needs first. This behavior often stems from a fear of conflict or a deep-seated need for acceptance. However, this can…