The Art of the Two-Faced: Why Hypocrites Fool Us and How to Spot Them
From fake friendships to strategic lies, explore the psychology behind hypocrisy and how to see through the charade
Understanding the Hypocrite: Why Do People Hide Their True Selves?
We’ve all met someone who seems charming and agreeable, only to later feel betrayed when their real motives emerge. Hypocrisy, it turns out, is not just about whispering behind backs or faking smiles at social events. At its core, hypocrisy is a deeper, more complex trait — a mask people wear to control how they’re perceived and to gain something in return.
According to the Larousse, hypocrisy is “an attitude of hiding one’s true character or intentions, affecting emotions, opinions, and virtues that one doesn’t possess, to present oneself in a favorable light and inspire trust.” For some, the workplace becomes fertile ground for hypocrisy, where professional ambitions fuel the urge to manipulate or deceive. Yet, hypocrites can often be found closer to home among friends, partners, or family members.
