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To Stay or Not to Stay: The Curious Case of Modern Fidelity
Navigating the Tightrope of Loyalty in the Age of Polyamory and Social Media Temptations
In a world where “swiping right” has become synonymous with finding love and loyalty often feels like an antiquated notion, the question remains: is fidelity still relevant? Once viewed as a moral and social obligation, fidelity today is increasingly seen as a choice founded on trust and respect. This evolution reflects broader societal changes and offers a new perspective on what it means to be faithful in contemporary relationships.
The Old Guard vs. The New Wave: Understanding Fidelity’s Transformation
Fidelity, once synonymous with monogamy and lifelong commitment, is now interpreted in myriad ways. For some, it remains a steadfast principle; for others, it’s an outdated concept overshadowed by the allure of polyamory and open relationships. As Christophe André, a renowned psychiatrist, stated, “Fidelity is an old concept but not at all outdated. It is defined by the bond — the desire and effort to maintain it despite the passage of time and the challenges of distance.” This perspective underscores that fidelity is less about resisting external temptations and more about honoring a mutual…
